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Why Do I Feel Triggered So Easily?
Understanding emotional triggers and how to feel safer in your own skin You know those moments when something tiny happens and your reaction feels huge? A slightly sharp email. A certain tone of voice. Someone going quiet, or arriving home later than usual. On the outside it looks like “nothing much”. On the inside your heart is racing, your stomach drops, your thoughts spiral, and before you know it you are either snapping, shutting down or wanting to run away. Then comes th

Cherie James
Jan 175 min read


How to Stop Living in Fear
A relationship falls apart. A job ends. Even something as simple as a conversation can leave us feeling rattled. And in those moments, without even realising it, we fall into a fear mindset.

Cherie James
Jan 44 min read


How Do I Stop Caring What People Think?
There’s a line between caring because we want to do a good job and caring so much that we’re constantly in fear. One is about integrity. The other is about survival. We’re trying to protect our identity.

Cherie James
Dec 17, 20254 min read


Breaking Free from Unhealthy Habits: It’s Not About Willpower
We often talk about habits like they’re simple things—just something we need more discipline to fix. But if you’ve ever tried to stop something … you’ll know it’s not that simple.

Cherie James
Aug 2, 20253 min read


When “Not Enough” Is Running the Show: Understanding the Root of Overdoing, Burnout, and Self-Doubt
There’s a voice that lives quietly in the background for many of us.
It might sound like:
I should be doing more...
I should be doing better...
I’m just not doing enough.

Cherie James
Jun 7, 20253 min read


Rediscovering Your Worth: Healing Self-Esteem from the Inside Out
Ever felt like you're constantly battling yourself, being your harshest critic, second-guessing your worth and abilities? You're not alone.

Cherie James
Mar 15, 20253 min read


Why Am I Always on Edge? Meet Your Inner FBI/MI6 Agent
Have you ever found yourself reacting to something seemingly small in a way that feels... too much? If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone, and it’s not your fault.

Cherie James
Jan 17, 20253 min read


When Your Body Says No: Understanding Burnout and the Beliefs That Drive It
Burnout isn't a buzzword; it's a serious issue that creeps up when stress goes unchecked. It's your body & mind collectively hitting a wall.

Cherie James
Aug 31, 20243 min read


From Fear to Freedom: Understanding (and Overcoming) Phobias
Phobias are not just fears; they are intense, often overpowering emotions that can disrupt everyday life.

Cherie James
Jul 6, 20243 min read


From Hesitation to Action: When Every Decision Feels Like a Cliff Edge
For a long time, I was terrified of making decisions. It felt like my life was a narrow path, perched on the edge of a cliff. And every decision—every single one—had one right answer...

Cherie James
Apr 9, 20242 min read


Living With Anxiety: When Life Feels Like Walking Through Fog
Imagine you're walking through a thick fog, where each step is uncertain and filled with a sense of dread about the unknown. That's anxiety.

Cherie James
Feb 28, 20242 min read


When Life Feels Like Too Much: Finding Yourself Beneath the Stress
Stress – It's a word we often use when feeling overwhelmed by life's demands, when life throws more at us than we feel we can handle.

Cherie James
Jan 17, 20242 min read
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