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Why CBT Didn’t Quite Work for Me
I tried CBT. More than once, actually.
I learned to notice my unhelpful thoughts. I practised challenging them. I journaled. I had tools.
But even with all that, I burned out. Three times.

Cherie James
5 days ago4 min read


The Power of Choice: Reclaiming Your Inner Authority
There’s a quiet moment I often witness in therapy, the pause when someone realises they do have a choice. Not always the choice they wanted, not always an easy one. But a choice, nonetheless. And in that realisation, something powerful happens: they begin to reclaim a sense of agency, of possibility, of self.

Cherie James
Nov 13 min read


Breaking Free from Unhealthy Habits: It’s Not About Willpower
We often talk about habits like they’re simple things—just something we need more discipline to fix. But if you’ve ever tried to stop something … you’ll know it’s not that simple.

Cherie James
Aug 23 min read


When “Not Enough” Is Running the Show: Understanding the Root of Overdoing, Burnout, and Self-Doubt
There’s a voice that lives quietly in the background for many of us.
It might sound like:
I should be doing more...
I should be doing better...
I’m just not doing enough.

Cherie James
Jun 73 min read


Rediscovering Your Worth: Healing Self-Esteem from the Inside Out
Ever felt like you're constantly battling yourself, being your harshest critic, second-guessing your worth and abilities? You're not alone.

Cherie James
Mar 153 min read


Why Am I Always on Edge? Meet Your Inner FBI/MI6 Agent
Have you ever found yourself reacting to something seemingly small in a way that feels... too much? If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone, and it’s not your fault.

Cherie James
Jan 173 min read


The Truth About Relationships: Why Love Is a Choice, Not Just a Feeling
In the intricate dance of relationships, the challenges we face often stem from the diverse tapestry of our individual beliefs...

Cherie James
Oct 26, 20243 min read


When Your Body Says No: Understanding Burnout and the Beliefs That Drive It
Burnout isn't a buzzword; it's a serious issue that creeps up when stress goes unchecked. It's your body & mind collectively hitting a wall.

Cherie James
Aug 31, 20243 min read


From Fear to Freedom: Understanding (and Overcoming) Phobias
Phobias are not just fears; they are intense, often overpowering emotions that can disrupt everyday life.

Cherie James
Jul 6, 20243 min read
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